SHOCKING MEANING OF BRACELET WORN AROUND THE ANKLE

Ladies take note!

An anklet is a bracelet worn around the ankle. Symbolically, it means a woman wearing one is a loose lady or wife and available to men for sexual activity.

From history, wearing of leg chains around the ankle  originated from french prostitutes who wear them to attract their male clients

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Reason Why Women of today prefers sold human hair to natural hair – Bisola Iyasara

isola Iyasara is a Nigerian, born in London, partly raised in New York but with a strong ties to Nigeria. She’s a model, motivational speaker and hair specialist consultant. In fact she caught our attention  because of the big buzz the drop dead geourgeous lady is stirring as a result of her human hair range of products which have come to be known as ‘Bisola Hair’.

Bisola Iyasara

Nigerian celebrities from the entertainment world, business and high society rock just about one brand of human hair -’Bisola Hair’. So, what is special about Bisola Hair and human hair in general. Bisola speaks with us:

What’s so special about Bisola hair?

The Brand “Bisola Hair” is a unique brand. It is a concept that centres on originality, genuine products and a world class customer service. It is interesting to note that I personally travel to Mongolia, Peru, and Malaysia to source for authentic, original real and raw human hair which has no tangles, no shedding, no knotting, no split ends, and no grey hairs. All Bisola Hair is unprocessed as there are no chemicals at all in them. I have trained hair stylist specialists that custom-make my lovely customers human virgin hair weft/weave, glueless celebrity French lace/Swiss lace, and bleach knots silk top full lace wigs hair to the highest standards.

What really is the hullabaloo on human hair all about?

It is all about the beauty of a woman. Hair is one of the most important components of a woman’s beauty. A woman’s hair can generate a confidence or a negative complex in her. The hair you wear will invariably enhance your glamour in appearance which is also very important to life. Human hair is the ultimate hair that can revive, stimulate and enhance a woman’s look unlike the synthetic hair alternative. Some women   suffer from alopecia and other hair loss challenges but with adequate treatment and the use of human hair, especially “Bisola Hair”, there is complete restoration of confidence, gorgeousness and sexy look.

What actually started this craze for human hair?

The human hair phenomenon started with women who wanted unique hairstyles but without any compromise and damage to their natural hair. As I said before, it is like a protection for your own hair. Having confirmed the effectiveness of human hair from everyday woman, celebrities, high class ladies etc, the desire by more women to wear it increased. Today, it is a woman’s ultimate hair desire and “Bisola Hair”, the ultimate destination.

Why are they considered better than our natural God-given hair?

Our natural hair in my opinion still remains the best hair any woman can wear but “human hair” in today’s world is more versatile with what you can do with it without damaging your natural hair. For example if you were to bleach your natural hair, it would be instantly damaged but with a “human hair” it acts like a protection against damaging your hair.

We have heard of Indian hair, Peruvian hair and all sorts, why no African hair?

African hair is available but not in commercial quantity as could be harvested from the other locations. Brazilian, Mongolian, Peruvian, Malaysian and others have more natural gifts of faster hair growth than Africans. That makes it comparatively easier for commercialization.

 You seem to target only celebrities, prime minister’s wives, governors’ wives/daughters why?

We target everyday women who want to feel glamorous and sexy.  It is just that a lot of these celebrity’s wives and daughters also wear our hair. Unarguably, it is because we deliver the best that exist in the industry. Our products are for those women who cherish quality and appreciate the elegance of it. We reach out to women who are not celebrities or wives and daughters of influential people, because we want them to feel confident and beautiful without having the makeup and stylist that celebrities have. That is the added value of our hair products.

Can you give a list of  notable people that have rocked the Bisola Hair at one time or another?

I have a lot of Nigerian governors’ wives and daughters, socialites, Nigerian Nollywood actresses and celebrities wearing Bisola Hair. Bisola Hair is a professional specialist brand. We protect the names of our big clients, as a lot of these ladies do not want people to know the secrets of the hair that they are wearing. I can mention few of our clients that have given me permission to use their names in this interview. Senator Florence Ita Giwa, Senator Bose Balogun, First lady Hanah  Zambugi, Honorable Omosedei Igbinedion, Top business lady owner of Polo Avenue, Jennifer Obayuwana, Nollywood actresses; Ini Edo, Bukky Wright, Dayo Amusa, Mercy Aigbe, Nkiru Sylvanus, Omo Iyasara and Biola Ige.

 Do you honestly think human hairs can enhance true beauty of a woman and how?

Remember that “beauty” comes from within you. Having said that, it is obvious that such natural beauty can be enhanced through the type of hair a woman wears. In this generation where climatic and environmental alterations can degrade the growth of a woman’s natural hair, the art to enhance it becomes necessary. The place of human hair in a woman’s beauty is simply priceless.

Since you have toured the world in the course of your business, which nationality do you think has most issues as far as natural hairs are concerned?

Issues with natural hairs transcends  borders and nationality. It is simply an individual issue like other human issues. Hair loss is not peculiar to women from any nationality, but common challenge associated with women. But conservatively speaking, African women may have more challenges with their natural hair than others. The factors could range from environmental to genetically related causes.  The good news is that Bisola Hair is out to bridge the gap.

Your profile says you undertook medical hair course, what exactly is that?

The medical hair course that I took in New York was one of the steps to perfect my passion for hair and its related challenges, launching me into the world of a professional hair consultant. That means that when I speak about hair, I am an authority in it.

 You were once a model, would you say doing this hair business is more lucrative than modelling or a career in entertainment?

My days of modelling and other glamour laced activities are not comparable to the career satisfaction that I derive being in hair business. It’s more of the inner satisfaction than the financial remuneration. My hair business is a passion beyond boundaries. The enhancement   of a lady’s look by wearing Bisola Hair is already a joy beyond money. When a lady wears Bisola Hair, she wears along with it, many other things, including good self-esteem, gorgeousness, confidence, genuineness and many others. As gifted multi-task individual, I still reach out to my other activities like motivational speaking but my ultimate satisfaction lies in my hair business.

How to look more matured, even when much more younger

new trends and ‘how to’-posts that you can use if you need a little help, a few tips or just some inspiration on what to wear where and how! Personal Stylist is a column that will answer some of the many questions we receive on a daily basis pioneering with a question from Cherie, who struggles with looking too young and fearing not being taken seriously. You too can ask a question on the comment icon below

I am 24 and heading to law school this fall. The only thing is, I am told often that I look like I’m 17, so at this point, older professionals do not take me seriously. I wear make up and dress my age for the most part, so I am at a loss as to what to do. Any suggestions?

Many search for answers and ideas that will make them look younger, but if you’re one of those people, including yours truly, who’ve always looked younger than they are, you sometimes need to put some effort into looking older. Here are some ideas by Joswids Blog on how to look more mature.

The Dos And The Don’ts

Like with any style or trends there are some dos and some don’ts that are good to keep in mind when going shopping or getting dressed. Take a look at these in order to start looking more mature.

DOs

Heels: Cherie writes that she mostly wears flip-flops. Heels will give you a better posture making you look more ‘in control’. Of course, who can stand walking in heels to class, so a pair of wedges will here do the trick.

Hair: Pulling the hair back will give you a more mature look without looking like a school teacher from 1960.

Skirts: Pencil skirts are elegant and feminine skirts scream professional business woman. For a young woman, we also suggest tulip skirts as pictured below.

Blazers: A classic item every woman needs in her wardrobe. Can dress up or dress down any outfit and will make you look elegant and sophisticated.

Handbag: A modern leather handbag in a fairly classic design is a great choice in stead of a handbag made of fabric.

DONTs

Slouching: Avoid slouching and clothes that make you appear like this. Hold your head high and straighten your back. This includes sweatshirts, which are great for relaxing, but not for going somewhere you want to be taken seriously.

Prints: T-shirts with cartoon characters.

Shape: Shapeless dresses.

Pastels: Items in pastels like bubblegum pink, light blue, sea green.

Some of the items pictured below are beautiful [like the Valentino headband] and may be suitable for some readers, styles and occasions, but they do show what will make people look younger and not more mature.

Ideas for your hairdo…

Instead of wearing your hair in a ponytail or letting in down without really making any effort to make it look like a hairdo, put your hair up in a bun like these Hollywood actresses pictured below. The bun can be perfectly pulled back and it can be messy. Either way it will make you look more mature and elegant.

Buns are fairly easy to make, but a good tip is to wash your hair the day before you’ll be ‘needing’ this hairdo, as freshly washed hair is a little harder to work with. However, there are many products that will make the hair easier to work with like a texture balm.

Inspirational Outfit…

Here is a look that will make you look more mature, however still keep it trendy and suitable for a young professional woman. The key is to take classic items and mix in some fun and feminine accessories. Dressing completely traditional and old-fashioned will not make people think you’re more mature – that will make them think you have no personality, which means it’s important to stay true to yourself and have a personal style at the same time.

This outfit is very classic consisting of a pair of pants, a silk blouse, black heels  and a blazer, however choosing a loosely fitted blouse instead of a classic one and a pair of tight fitted pants makes this outfit right for a young woman. Instead of the necklace, a scarf would also do the trick of making it more fun and trendy. And by scarf we don’t mean a small silk one, but rather a larger scarf with an exciting print.

Formal Attire for Women And Dress Codes

We are 100% committed to providing the information that you need to make an informed choice when buying the best formal attire for women. You’ll discover a wealth of invaluable information on how to choose outfits that will flatter your figure, you’ll learn how to accessorize outfit, and find the very best places to shop online. We’ll identify places that charge affordable prices without compromising on quality.
The most important aspect of formal dress is finding valuable information about fashionable styles for all occasions – business attire for women, weddings, proms, balls, cocktail parties, garden parties or evening meals. Since each of these occasions requires a totally different style of dress, it can be difficult to determine what would be most appropriate to wear. However, with our help, it will become easier and a lot more fun to shop.

Understanding Formal Dress Codes

When you’re shopping for formal business attire or casual evening wear, you’ll likely have a specific level of “formality” that you need to meet, so it’s important to understand what these levels are so that you can choose clothing that’s appropriate for the occasion. The different levels include business formal, semi-formal, black tie, and white tie.
If you have received an invitation, it’ll likely specify what type of formal dress code is most appropriate, which will remove a lot of the guess work. However, even if the invitation states the type of affair, you’ll still need to have an understanding of the differences between the codes so that you choose an appropriate outfit.

Business Attire for Women

The most common day-to-day type of clothing that you’ll require is professional business attire. This is  work clothing that is considered appropriate for the office, business meetings, court hearings, and things of that nature. Typically, women wear business suits that consist of either a pair of pants or a skirt with a dress shirt and a suit jacket. Dress shoes, such as pumps or flats, are also commonly worn.
Wearing a nice skirt paired with a dressy blouse can also be considered business formal attire, but it depends on the style and design of the separate skirt and blouse, and it would also depend on where you were wearing the outfit. A simple skirt and blouse combo may not be professional enough for a day in court or an important business meeting.
One of the main areas to focus on when purchasing professional business attire for women is finding clothes that fit well and compliment your body type. Unfortunately, many women make the mistake of wearing a suit that is too tight, which ends up completely spoiling their overall look. It doesn’t matter if you buy the most expensive business suit in the clothes shop, if it doesn’t fit right then you’ve just wasted your money so make sure you spend the extra time to get it right, and even go down the tailoring route if you can’t find something off the rack that is suitable.
When you require business attire for the office then it’s usually a good idea to observe how everybody else in the office dresses, and then build up your wardrobe around a few basic outfits that conforms to this style. Also, it’s not uncommon for a company to issue handbooks that outline expected dress codes to give you an idea on what to wear for a day at the office.

Semi-Formal Dress Code

‘Semi-formal attire’ is clothing that is worn for things like dinners, garden parties, or even as a guest at a wedding. Although this can be misleading for some, you will not be forced to wear an elaborate gown. Instead, a cocktail outfit will suffice. Examples of different cocktail outfits are a blouse, fancy skirt and top, a pretty dress or even a suit.
The cocktail dresses that are appropriate for an occasion will vary depending on if you’re attending a dinner, a wedding, or something in between. You may also notice slight differences in what women are wearing based on the time of year it is and whether the event is held indoors or outdoors.
If you want to go for a safe bet when attending an event that requires semi-formal dress code, then try choosing a knee-length cocktail dress, as this is often the perfect compromise between casual and formal. Let’s face it, you’re probably scared of wearing evening gowns with sleeves to such an event in case people view your and your outfit as looking too formal, which is why a cocktail dress is a good alternative.

Seasonal colors also work well in this type of situation. For example, if it’s a semi-formal garden party in the summer, then you’ll want to wear bright colors that fit in with the mood, and avoid anything too dark. Not only that, but the fabric of the clothing is also an important consideration as you don’t want to end up too hot during the summer or too cold during the winter.

As with any kind of professional attire for women, it’s important that you always dress for your body type and look for dresses and skirts that show off the most flattering parts of your body while minimizing the areas you want to draw attention away from. At semi-formal events showing some cleavage is okay, although don’t go overboard. If you’re getting too many stares then it is a probably a sign you need to cover up a bit!

Formal Clothing for Black Tie Events

A formal black tie event is considered slightly more formal than ‘semi-formal’. A lady should normally wear a black tie gown that touches the floor, but a gown that is of a shorter length is also sometimes acceptable. A cocktail dress is optional, but it is recommended that a gown is worn. There are many variations of black tie-appropriate gowns, such as full skirts that resemble a bell shape to ones that are form fitting and floor length.
Many women feel that a black tie event means wearing dresses that are conservative but this is not always the case, as it’s more than possible to go with something that is modern and exciting without coming across as casual.

The main thing to keep in mind is that anything you wear should be classy, which means avoiding a dress or gown that is too revealing. Typically, a plunging neckline or backless dress is the perfect way to have a more modern style and draw attention to yourself, while at the same time remaining within the boundaries of what’s acceptable for a black tie event.

Formal Attire for Cocktail Parties

While not ultra formal, cocktail parties would not be considered casual either, which means finding the right balance is key. A formal blouse and skirt is considered to be a good option when attending a party, or even long dressy pants with a cashmere sweater. Of course, cocktail dresses are by far the most popular choice, although there are so many options in this area it can be hard to know exactly what to wear.
Ultimately, this is a formal event so it’s a safer option to go with cocktail attire for women that looks more elegant and classy, rather than revealing or flashy. Knee length is normally preferred, although you might want to go a bit longer in the winter and even pair the dress with a jacket to keep the cold at bay.

Choosing Formal Attire for Women

No matter what type of event you’re attending, selecting women’s attire can be fun and exciting, but it can also be a daunting and confusing experience. That’s why we aim to give you the knowledge you’re looking for about which styles, colors and patterns will look best on you so that you no longer have to dread going shopping. One thing is for certain, though, shopping for women’s formal wear is going to be more difficult than buying every-day casual clothing. Sorry to deliver the bad news.
Making sure you are clear on the exact type of dress code is critically important, and it will help you to pick out a dress or business suit that looks great on you far more quickly. While there are guidelines surrounding what is and is not appropriate to wear to specific types of events, there is some leeway allowed in those guidelines. For instance, a gown that is suitable for a black tie event may also be suitable for a white tie event, and a cocktail dress suitable for semi-formal occasions could very well also be suitable for a black tie event. It’s no wonder so many women are confused and frustrated, but you’ll figure it all out after spending some time soaking up all the information there is here.
However, if you are out shopping and you have any doubt about whether or not the dress you’re interested in will suit the occasion you’re attending, ask for assistance from the store attendant and they will likely be able to tell you which dress would be appropriate to wear. If you take into consideration all the information on this website, you will find that buying all types of formal attire for women is a lot easier.

Glamorous looks from Miss Nigeria 2013, As Akudo wins

This year’s Miss Nigeria beauty pageant held last Saturday at the prestigious Intercontinental hotel Victoria Island Lagos sets the stage for future celebrity styles.  .

The red carpet featured so much colour, bling, dazzling dresses, sharp suits and smiles to compliment the stars look.  This year’s trendsetters include Ene Maya, South African model Millen, Eunice Efole, Elor Aisen and Opeyemi Awoyeami who dazzled in a black transparent and lace dress.

The event which was well attended saw Twenty three year old Akudo Ezinne Anyaoha, emerge Miss Nigeria 2013. Akudo a law graduate of Abia State University beat 20 other contestants to clinch the coveted crown.

By her win, she gets a brand new car donated by Quintessentially, N3, 000, 000m, a trip to California and one year free accommodation.

She is also the country’s International Ambassador that will uphold the Nigerian culture and traditional values in our modern way of life.

High Heel shoes: The bitter price of elegance

When it comes to shoes, some women will go through hell for a pair of the London Jimmy Choo brand. The brand became notable in the fashion circles, especially for its high heeled bridals since 1996. Since wearing high-heeled shoes is an art, women deserve medals for learning to walk in them let alone run! But what effect does wearing high heel have on our bodies?

Most women believe that if they wear high-heeled shoes they will become more attractive, sexier, more cultured, corporate and sophisticated as well as boost their confidence.

These days at social functions, including churches, as every day wear, especially in the corporate world, Nigerian ladies can be seen wearing these ridiculously high-heeled shoes that come as high as 14 to 16 inches.

There are different kinds — the wedge, clogs, ankle strap heels, wedge sandals and the high heel sandals and they come in assorted colours.

Unknown to many, the constant wearing of these shoes presents some very serious health risks as experts have warned that they could constitute harm to the feet, hip, back and even lead to permanent body deformities. “The negative effects of wearing high heels can be experienced in particular sections of the feet, knees, legs and back.

Dr Onyebuchi Ahoma, a Clinical Psychologist, says that ladies who wear heels put themselves through unnecessary misery and pain. “Some of them cannot even walk straight on heels because they feel uncomfortable but because they think it is chic and trendy they want to endure and ignore the pains they feel,’’ he said.

Dr Abubakah Muhyi, an Orthopaedic Surgeon with the National Hospital, Abuja, says that high heel shoes have been the leading cause that usually brought female patients to visit orthopaedic doctors. Muhyi says that the constant wearing of shoes with high heels or narrow toes have led to a high incidence in corrective foot operations.

According to him, this is what happens when women choose fashionable footwear over health, and many of them aren’t even aware that they are causing harm to their health. “Years of wearing heels can lead to bunions or other infractions of the toe and calf. These signs often surface in middle aged women.

“When a woman is walking on heels, she is basically walking on the balls of her feet. The ball of the foot will experience intense pressure and this pressure more than doubles with every inch in the height of shoe heel. “Ankle injuries are always a threat and the degree of injuries can extend from sprains to fractures. Calluses, corns and bunions can be formed on feet due to high heels, especially if the shoes are tight or walked on for long periods.

“Metatarsalgia is a condition affecting the ball of the foot, where all the weight is concentrated on when a woman is in heels. “Hammertoes is a condition where the toes are maintained in downward curled position because of the continual confinement of the feet in the high heels. “The muscles of the feet become tight and are unable to stretch and straighten when out of the shoes.

“Women may complain of numbness, sharp pain and burn in the toes and ball of the foot when wearing high heeled shoes — all of which are symptoms of `Morton’s Neuroma’ which is the inflammation of the tissue surrounding the nerve between the third and fourth toes,’’ he told newsmen.

Dr Babalola Olatunji, a Consultant Orthopaedic and Trauma Surgeon with the National Orthopaedic Hospital, Igbobi (NOHIL), Lagos, says that high heels cause much more pressure on the knees than what the knees are designed for, and could give rise to a condition called osteoarthritis as well as other joint disorders.

Olatunji noted that women who wear high heels frequently have a higher incidence of degenerative joint disease of the knees. This is because they cause a decrease in the normal rotation of the foot which puts more rotation stress on the knee. He says that a similar condition could occur with the Achilles tendon where it could retain its shortened state even when a woman is not wearing high heels.

“The calves will tend to retain the contracted and shortened state due to the feet being in high heels. The calf muscles may become difficult or virtually impossible to straighten without medical intervention. “High heels can cause a change in the way the muscles and tendons work together while walking. Normally, a tendon stretches and shortens, making walking easy on the muscles of the calf.

“However, heels wearing can cause the tendons, especially the Achilles tendon to shorten, leaving the strain on the muscles of the calf to do all the work. “They can cause foot pain, increase likelihood of sprains and fractures, and make the calves look more rigid and sinewy. They can also create foot deformities, causing an unsteady gait, shorten the wearer’s stride and can also render the wearer unable to run,’’ he said.

Another Orthopaedic and Trauma Surgeon at NOHIL, Lagos, Dr Akintayo Akindele, is of the opinion that regular wearing of high heel shoes could affect the body posture of a woman. “The increased weight on the toes caused the body to tilt forward and to compensate, you lean backwards and overarch your back creating a posture that can strain your knees, hips and lower back. “Because the feet will be in a fixed position, the woman will have to bend her spine in the lower back more to keep her balance.

“Some women may wonder where certain back, shoulder and neck pain may come from. Well, high heels are a prime cause of such pain in the torso,’’ he added. Akindele says that with each inch added to a heel, greater problems could arise, but there are also ways to wear heels more safely… So, if you insist on wearing high heels and you are concerned about muscle and joint strains, his advice is simple:

“I am not telling people they shouldn’t wear heels, but should, maybe wear them in moderation and alternate with other flat shoes. “Women who wear high heels can take them off when feeling uncomfortable, while driving or sitting at their desk at work. Try, if possible to ease back a bit on the high footwear. “Wear high heels maybe once or twice a week. And if that’s not practical or desirable, try to remove the heels whenever possible.

“Settle for shoes that are light and comfortable and don’t have a tight area for the toes. Also, women must stray from tempting selections with a high heel. In the long run, your feet will thank you for your efforts.’’ In spite of the fuss over high heel shoes for Nigerian women, Miss Juliet Igwe, a final year student of Tai-Solarin University of Education, Ijebu Ode, Ogun, says that such shoes are like a “Fashion Mantra’’ for her.

She adds that they complete her total appearance, beauty and self esteem. “I love wedge heels, they make you walk elegantly and you feel this aura of confidence that completes your feminine personality. “Whether they are associated with any form of health risk, I am not aware,’’ she said.

Ms Rita Izunobi, the Chief Executive Officer (CEO), Ritz Make-up and Décor, says high heel shoes are an essential aspect of a lady’s dressing. “For a working class lady or a lady who deals with the corporate world, heels are a must wear to greatly enhance your personal standing and gait.

“I heard they could cause back pain, but I have never experienced any,’’ Izunobi said. A civil servant, Mrs Titi Tela, is of the opinion that high heels could be uncomfortable but inevitable when it comes to a woman’s wardrobe. “Many women wear them to look and feel sexy, professional, or to boost confidence, but most ladies carry flat slip-ons or shoes in their bags to alternate because these heels can be very discomforting and you do not have a choice but to slip out of them,’’ she said.

Mr Joe Onalo, an engineer, thinks that ladies who wear high heels look attractive. “I admire ladies on high heels because they have a way of catching one ’s fancy, attention and admiration.’’